First of all, thank you for the kind and generous words.
I would say that we differ on our understanding of what you seem to portray as something fundamental in Palestinian minds that is genocidal toward Jewish Israelis and Jews more broadly. I don't see that, although I most certainly believe that there is a lot of hatred because of the treatment many Palestinians have seen at the hands of Jewish settlers in the West Bank, in Gaza, etc. (we all know the examples). It boils down to a chicken and egg type of question, and I believe that there is nothing within the Palestinian genetic makeup that makes them more prone to hating Jewish people. I don't know if that's exactly what you're hinting at, but I would disagree there.
And to your second point, I believe there is evidence that the IDF is bombing targets where it doesn't have enough evidence to target. There are now many cases of the IDF targeting refugee camps in Gaza.
But, yes, there will always be disagreement over this I don't expect to agree. Thank you for engaging in a civil manner and, once again, for your encouraging words!
All the best to you.